tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1466214667432495103.post2071571881567076881..comments2023-10-24T03:22:36.579-07:00Comments on Parental Alienation: Dates - the edible kindRBhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14946088233856282426noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1466214667432495103.post-48788213369043933122010-08-04T12:42:21.167-07:002010-08-04T12:42:21.167-07:00Thank you so much for sharing your experience. I a...Thank you so much for sharing your experience. I am gleaning hope from yours and other's alienated children's stories.<br />I am currently the TP. It has been 4 1/2 years since my son refused to come back home to me. I consistantly keep trying to contact him. I know in his heart he loves me, and I will never give up.<br />I am currently writing a book on the perspective of the alienated parent. I am looking for inspirational stories for my book. Stories from TP's and AC's alike that will give hope to other TP's. <br />In my past research everything I have read has been so depressing and hopeless sounding. <br />I refuse to believe that there is not another way...and that we can't find some success stories out there.<br />We need hope and positive thinking. TP's need the strength to carry on and to keep reaching out to the CA even when we continuously get ignored or shot down.<br />If anyone can help me...please pass on some great stories.<br />joannecasselton@hotmail.com<br /><br />thank youAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1466214667432495103.post-60234067344541325752009-03-19T11:04:00.000-07:002009-03-19T11:04:00.000-07:00I totally understand. I cooked something last week...I totally understand. I cooked something last week that I hadn't made since 2001 solely because it was one of my stepdaughter's absolute favorite dishes. As an adult survivor of parental alienation I know the damage caused by this horrible form of child abuse. My husband & I are the target parents of PA however my stepdaughter is the true victim !!!!Rindas 2 Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12077652068882587193noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1466214667432495103.post-89011375536389408252008-11-30T14:35:00.000-08:002008-11-30T14:35:00.000-08:00Rowan, as a targeted parent who is being treated t...Rowan, as a targeted parent who is being treated the same exact way that you described you treated your mother, I can assure you of two things. Your mother loved you from the bottom of her soul regardless of what you did to her. She wouldn't have placed blame on you - she would have wholeheartedly accepted your I'm sorry and she would have been relieved that the alienation was finally over. When you are sad, I guarantee that your mother is wrapping her arms around you from heaven. She doesn't want you to hurt so badly. All I want to hear from my boys is that they're sorry (for treating me so badly). I don't want them to find fault with their father. I want them to stop abusing me and finding fault with every single thing that I do. I want them to love me again, like they used to. I am so truly sorry for all your pain. I know it all too well. I thank G-d that I have the knowledge, from good people like you, who educate me on PA. Your blogs help so many targeted parents, more than you will ever know. I am so grateful that you share your experiences and feelings. You give me hope that one day my children will realize that I love them with everything I have and the lies they've been told are just that - lies. Congratulations on becoming strong!! What an awesome person you are. Your mother is so proud of you for sure.My two boyshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08405758298577849241noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1466214667432495103.post-61115757279083102602008-11-18T15:14:00.000-08:002008-11-18T15:14:00.000-08:00I have gone through the same thing. Ex husband was...I have gone through the same thing. Ex husband was convicted of domestic violence on me. Convicted after divorce of child abuse on our son. Daughter has shared some things inappropriate with her and dad, but doesn't want to talk about it. A cousin of his said he raped her too. He came after custody. He is narcistic and charming. He began to let our teens do things that were wrong and when I told them no, he said yes. I became the bad guy. He would say...mom just doesn't understand. He then filed for custody and told the kids...you choose me or I will disown you. My son said, mom at least I know you love me. I have not choice. The counselor said, I was portrayed as all black...dad all white...no middle and no on is all good and all bad. I was shell=shocked.I have no convictions-nothing! My attorney said, you can still win this against your kids in court-but you win the battle-not the war. He will continue to undermine your parenting. The kids were literally destroying my home. I let them go. Now they are rude, cuss at me, treat me like garbage and act like they don't want to see me. I was told by one of my daughter's friends that the kids were told to raise hell at my house. Even when I gave them to him but received visitation. I can't live like this! Now they act like they hate coming to the house. I have always been involved in their lives, school, etc. I would have never thought this could have happened.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1466214667432495103.post-57910399684015121382008-10-06T15:10:00.000-07:002008-10-06T15:10:00.000-07:00Rowen, Welcome back !! Hey have a few dates for me...Rowen, <BR/><BR/>Welcome back !! <BR/><BR/>Hey have a few dates for me!!<BR/><BR/>LouiseZoeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00137007897874209945noreply@blogger.com