tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1466214667432495103.post6290263531559645194..comments2023-10-24T03:22:36.579-07:00Comments on Parental Alienation: Looking back positively for the first timeRBhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14946088233856282426noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1466214667432495103.post-66647164442885297722008-11-10T21:59:00.000-08:002008-11-10T21:59:00.000-08:00Great work.Great work.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1466214667432495103.post-45334698540147913832007-11-21T15:16:00.000-08:002007-11-21T15:16:00.000-08:00Rowan:Music is wonderful to bring back good memori...Rowan:<BR/><BR/>Music is wonderful to bring back good memories. I can still see the visions of good times with my ex through music. (She is the alienator) and it helps the hurt. It can help clear away, temporarily, what I call the thin veil of misery we sometimes wear when a personal crisis or tragedy weighs us down each and every day.<BR/><BR/>You are doing much that is right to overcome what happened to you and I am learning what my two youngest girls might be thinking because they are going through where you have been.<BR/><BR/>Mike Murphy<BR/>http:\\parentalalienationcanada.blogspot.comMichael J. Murphyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01576687584409641503noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1466214667432495103.post-42312709279925067672007-11-21T09:30:00.000-08:002007-11-21T09:30:00.000-08:00Rowan,As horrible as what "your male parent" did t...Rowan,<BR/>As horrible as what "your male parent" did to you, an important part of healing is to try and forgive the alienating parent. Every child (regardless of age) should try and include both parents in their lives. You are fortunate in that you can now have a more appropriate perspective of the roles of both of your parents in your life. <BR/><BR/>The healing cycle would be complete if you could help your Father understand how his behaviors affected your life, with the hope that no other child or family will be so painfully affected. We are now learning that (some) alienators can be changed.<BR/><BR/>I wish you the best with coming to terms with your childhood, and hope you will continue writing your blog. It has given some very valuable insight into the dynamics of Parental Alienation and its long term effects. <BR/><BR/>Regards,<BR/>Robin Denison<BR/>robin@PAawareness.orgAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com